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      &lt;div class=&quot;author&quot;&gt;Directed by &lt;a href=&quot;/author/josh-gordon&quot;&gt;Josh Gordon&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;publisher&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/publisher/bona-fide-productions&quot;&gt;Bona Fide Productions&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;    &lt;/div&gt;
    &lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003EYVXU0?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=feminrevie-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B003EYVXU0&quot;&gt;The Switch&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; is getting a lukewarm reception, unless of course you count Capone&#039;s review over at &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.aintitcool.com/&quot;&gt;AintItCoolNews.com&lt;/a&gt;, which makes the film sound like the culprit behind most major World Wars. Others found it sweet but lacking depth, and as usual in the case of movies that don&#039;t land with mainstream audiences, I loved it.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I liked the fact that &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003EYVXU0?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=feminrevie-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B003EYVXU0&quot;&gt;The Switch&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; wasn&#039;t all about gross-out sperm humor, which is what the marketing campaign made it seem like it was going to be, focusing entirely on the moment in question of the actual titular switch. The marketing campaign made it seem like the movie was going to be a Farrelly Brothers movie or something more akin to, &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002ZG9968?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=feminrevie-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B002ZG9968&quot;&gt;The Back-Up Plan&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;. But it wasn&#039;t.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;This is a movie about what happens after a wacky mishap, the human fallout. It&#039;s more about the resulting child and less about the night he was conceived. Maybe it&#039;s because of the age I&#039;m at, 28, and my thinking about having a family of my own soon that made &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003EYVXU0?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=feminrevie-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B003EYVXU0&quot;&gt;The Switch&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; the kind of story I could really grasp onto.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The film operates under what Ebert calls, &quot;an idiot plot,&quot; where the entire film hinges around one secret that, if revealed, would essentially fix everything or ruin it forever. But unlike the frustration that typically comes with movies like this, as an audience member, I was rooting for the secret keeper and not wanting to ring his neck like I so often do. What&#039;s the difference this time? It&#039;s not really a secret. The two main characters already love each other, and we know that early on. They are simply too afraid of messing up their friendship and too frustrated with each other to say anything about it. Sounds less and less like the movie that was advertised, doesn&#039;t it? That&#039;s because this felt like a small film, maybe even an independent. But it was marketed to mass audiences.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Usually, movies like this play relationships oh-so-very-coy, and the main character seems totally oblivious to the fact that her male best friend is in love with her. I hate that. So, Aniston&#039;s portrayal of a character with mixed emotions, in love with her best friend but believing she deserves someone who will actually speak up for her and behave in a mature way, is refreshingly different. It helped me keep my patience with Bateman, who plays quirky and verklempt very well—so well that if it weren&#039;t for Aniston&#039;s more down-to-Earth portrayal, he would&#039;ve driven me crazy. It&#039;s as if we have a romantic comedy where the woman is unwilling to participate in the traditional structure, refusing to wait on the man to resolve his feelings before moving forward in her own life without him. The trouble is, there&#039;s still that pesky problem of being in love. Yes, every romantic comedy is the same.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;If you&#039;ve been on the fence and you like movies about what happens after the seemingly &quot;happily ever after,&quot; then give &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003EYVXU0?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=feminrevie-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B003EYVXU0&quot;&gt;The Switch&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; a try, eventually. Yes, there&#039;s a happy ending. Yes, at it&#039;s core, it&#039;s a populist movie about family and how we have to overcome the mistakes of the families we were raised in to build our own. But every once in a while, and with a cast like this, what&#039;s so wrong with that?&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Excerpted from &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bornforgeekdom.com/2010/06/grown-ups-movie-review-from-feminist.html&quot;&gt;Born for Geekdom&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;div&gt;
      &lt;span class=&quot;reviewer-names&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Written by:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;/reviewer/audrey-m-brown&quot;&gt;Audrey M. Brown&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;, August 25th 2010    &lt;/div&gt;
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      &lt;div class=&quot;author&quot;&gt;Directed by &lt;a href=&quot;/author/james-mangold&quot;&gt;James Mangold&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;publisher&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/publisher/20th-century-fox&quot;&gt;20th Century Fox&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;    &lt;/div&gt;
    &lt;p&gt;I’ve read almost universally bad reviews for &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002ZG9864?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=feminrevie-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B002ZG9864&quot;&gt;Knight and Day&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;, and I read most of them before I saw the movie. I don’t usually read reviews of a movie before I see it, because I don’t want my opinion to be tainted; in this case, they might’ve been, because I went into the movie with hyper-low expectations. That may have played a hand, because I actually really enjoyed the movie.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;In the world of most critics, this admission will mean I’m a sell out and have no taste whatsoever, but I’m getting to the age where I don’t care anymore. I’m not a studio plant, and I don’t love everything, as I get accused of so often when I admit liking a movie that bombs. I like what I like, I hate what I hate, and I’ll tell you why for both.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;For starters, &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002ZG9864?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=feminrevie-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B002ZG9864&quot;&gt;Knight and Day&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; did a lot of things very right, like the casting. We all think Tom Cruise is a little bit crazy in real life, and whether you believe any of the hype or not, that’s what his public image has become. But here’s the thing about actors: &lt;em&gt;they’re acting&lt;/em&gt;. And their personal beliefs shouldn&#039;t be a factor. Here, Cruise plays a wacky, at times out of control, spy. By embracing some of the stereotypes he has come to represent he’s saying, “I’m in on the joke.” It’s the best move he could’ve possibly made, and I haven’t enjoyed him this much in many, many moons.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Cameron Diaz is also perfectly cast as the neurotic female lead. She’s become well known for her high-strung roles, and here she is frequently given the chance to use that squealing and panicking for laughs. She gets a better story arc, unlike some of her other perma-wackos, like her character in &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00007AJF8?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=feminrevie-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B00007AJF8&quot;&gt;Being John Malkovich&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;, for example. Amazing movie and she’s great in it, but she doesn’t get the chance to change much in that. Here, we’re treated to seeing her character learn how to literally roll with the punches and find some long-missing fulfillment in her adventure as she learns how to handle herself and even begins to feed off of the danger she is surrounded by. (The more discerning viewer will look for character symbolism involving the car she is working on in the film.)&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;One of the greatest complaints about &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002ZG9864?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=feminrevie-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B002ZG9864&quot;&gt;Knight and Day&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; is that there is a device used to take us from scene to scene wherein Cameron Diaz’s character is drugged, meaning we miss out on some of the action of how they get from point A to point B. As a feminist, it would’ve bothered me for its potential date rape allusions, but after the first time, Diaz’s character asks to be drugged, so that pretty much solved my problem of her having her free will taken away. There&#039;s also a conclusion to the whole drugging thing that will bring closure to any one that still finds it troublesome.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The best thing about &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002ZG9864?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=feminrevie-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B002ZG9864&quot;&gt;Knight and Day&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; for me was the escapism. Beautiful locations shot well with some great action pieces is the definition of a fun summer popcorn movie. I do believe I’ll have to catch this again in theaters. That’s how much I liked it. All I wanted was to have fun and this movie delivered, and then some. I say, go see it. Just let yourself go and relax and try to forget the actor&#039;s personal lives and all the critics telling you to hate it. If you do hate it, hate it for your own reasons, and not because someone told you to on a movie review site.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;[Excerpted from Born for Geekdom(http://www.bornforgeekdom.com/2010/06/grown-ups-movie-review-from-feminist.html)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;div&gt;
      &lt;span class=&quot;reviewer-names&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Written by:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;/reviewer/audrey-m-brown&quot;&gt;Audrey M. Brown&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;, July 2nd 2010    &lt;/div&gt;
    &lt;div class=&quot;tag-list&quot;&gt;Tags: &lt;a href=&quot;/tag/action&quot;&gt;action&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;/tag/fun&quot;&gt;fun&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;    &lt;/div&gt;
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    &lt;p&gt;Every year, one of my nieces comes to visit my husband and I for a week over the summer. This year we took her to a couple of art museums, a jazz concert, and her first comic book store. We also did fun things at home like painting our nails and playing video games. On the last day of our visit, we decided to see a movie, and she wanted to see &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002ZG97TW?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=feminrevie-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B002ZG97TW&quot;&gt;Grown-Ups&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;. I did too, as a matter of fact.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I’m happy to report that I genuinely liked the movie. Though it has some foibles, that we’ll get to in a moment, the film is genuinely family friendly. Not only that, but it’s also family-centric. It’s enjoyable to see these guys, who are obviously friends in real life, working together on screen. On top of that, this is honestly the perfect summer movie. There’s a lake, a lake house, a rope swing, a picnic, and a vacation vibe that makes it the perfect movie for the upcoming Fourth of July weekend.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;In Adam Sandler movies from years past, women were typically just there to serve beer in a bikini or reward him with sexual activity for academic or sports-related progress; here they get to be actual people with a more three-dimensional and emotional story. Though &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002ZG97TW?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=feminrevie-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B002ZG97TW&quot;&gt;Grown-Ups&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; is definitely a movie written by and made for men (nothing wrong with that), one senses that Sandler and company are genuinely trying to be more respectful and inclusive of their female characters. They don’t always hit the mark with that intended change, but their effort seems sincere.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;We do get some of the stereotypical “nag” jokes, but hey…those are funny in small doses. I&#039;m not one of those feminists who thinks you can&#039;t make any jokes out of female characters at all. I&#039;m more in the Tina Fey school of &quot;anyone is fair game,&quot; along with any subject matter as long as there&#039;s a level playing field of mockery. The men in the film seem to be at a time in their lives when they are feeling emasculated, but their problems stem from their own lack of action, not from the action of their wives. Though the story teeters around blaming the women for the men&#039;s problems, hallelujah, it never really does. I had characters to identify with that weren’t simply present to be pleasing to the male gaze, and filmmakers take note: non-sexist plots will make you more money at the box office.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Okay, so there was one slow-mo cheerleaders running scene, but it was of the wives cheering on their husbands, and quite frankly, I&#039;d rather see the camera trained on the wife characters as being the visually appealing ones than some random girl bending over a car. (See the next paragraph.) In fact, there was almost a sweetness to this scene, although my fellow feminists may hunt me down for saying so. Part of any healthy relationship is finding your partner attractive, and I don&#039;t want there to be such a feminist backlash where we say any woman who wants to be attractive, or is, is a traitor. That just doesn&#039;t seem fair.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;In all fairness, there were still several parts of the film that made me wince, especially with my 14-year-old niece by my side. In one sequence, you’ve seen it in the preview, a clearly under-aged girl, dressed far too scantily, leans over a car in a highly suggestive manner so that the older, married men can gawk at her. Kind of gross and definitely not realistic. We’re not stupid. We really don’t care to get hot oil or steam burns all over ourselves while tinkering with our cars, and we don’t lick our lips and make come-hither eyes at an engine. Oddly, I found myself forgiving these clearly exploitative moments, and my niece simply got through it by looking at me and rolling her eyes.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;If you have a young daughter, the film might be a good gateway to discussing the portrayal of women on film. After all, if we censored what our kids watched based on sexism alone, they wouldn’t see much of anything at all. Better to watch it with them and talk about it. And this film is a great introduction to talking about lots of things: texting, video games, playing outside, marriage. In fact, I&#039;d like to see a sequel since the cast had such genuine chemistry. If you can’t get your inner critic to shut up, &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002ZG97TW?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=feminrevie-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B002ZG97TW&quot;&gt;Grown-Ups&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; might be just the thing.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;_&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bornforgeekdom.com/2010/06/grown-ups-movie-review-from-feminist.html&quot;&gt;Excerpted from Born for Geekdom&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;div&gt;
      &lt;span class=&quot;reviewer-names&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Written by:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;/reviewer/audrey-m-brown&quot;&gt;Audrey M. Brown&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;, July 1st 2010    &lt;/div&gt;
    &lt;div class=&quot;tag-list&quot;&gt;Tags: &lt;a href=&quot;/tag/comedy&quot;&gt;comedy&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;/tag/family&quot;&gt;family&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;/tag/humor&quot;&gt;humor&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;    &lt;/div&gt;
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